You are a bit late in posting to Jack. Sadly, Jack passed away in the fall of 2016.

It's true, there are two sides to every coin. Some can be bitter about the cards that life has handed them, but I see a large number of people all across the forums that are taking that same exact hand of cards and doing something productive w/their lives. Yes, it's true, it takes a while for them to come to realize that none of us were promised a fairy tale w/a happy ending.

The written word can be interpreted many ways. Sometimes, the writer is just venting their frustration, other times, yes, they are lashing out and can come across bitter, and then again, they are just expressing their thoughts and seeking some support/advice and even 2 x 4's along the way. Very few remain bitter and angry. The words bitter and angry take a lot of energy to maintain and can create health issues and create problems in any type of relationship. We do hope that if we come across people that continue to express those two issues, that we can help them find their way and come to realize that they can only control themselves and how they react to their own unique situations. There are some that get annoyed and frustrated w/us when we point out the "bitter" and "anger" issues, that their either remain stubborn and ignore our comments or their leave. They are the ones that we can't reach, i.e., even after years of posting here. For those individuals, I feel sorry for them and keep them in my prayers that some day, they will come to realize that the bitterness and anger are keeping them stuck in one place.

Divorce Busting isn't just about saving a marriage...it's about saving yourself, learning how to react to behavior and/or comments made to you. It's about finding your inner self that you've put aside in a relationship and yes, it's a tool that you can use in your every day life and not just in the marriage.

So, per Jack's question...what is your story? As he suggested a long time ago...how about starting a thread of your own and just maybe you might be surprised by the support, advice and guidance that you receive? For you to return years later, then there is something you are still searching for...what is it? Maybe we can help.