There is NO WAY she would take a vacation with me if she didn't have some sort of connection with me. do you know this for a fact? without a doubt? -my wife took a mini vacation, why wouldn't they? not sure who's paying or this or that, but you were her best friend, the father of her children, easier to take a vacation with someone who can help with the kids, etc. In my case I paid for the vacation as my wife did not work.
She is not the type of woman that takes advantage of me or people in general. You know, I thought this of my wife as well, my wife was the nicest person ever, never would i have thought she would in fact take advantage of me or people. and yet she did. People change, just as you're changing for the better, she too can change for the worse.
[/b]She is truly conflicted and testing the waters. [b]you're right she is testing the waters. You being there catering to her and doing the little things is not helping her learn to live without you. or miss you for that matter.
[/b]1. Deep down she wants to work on the marriage [b] is this true? do you absolutely know this for a FACT? [/b]2. She is skeptical of all of the changes that I have made and needs to know deep down that they will stick.[b] is this true? do you absolutely know this for a FACT? -I think we can all agree, the answer to these questions are No. you don't know this to be true or an undeniable fact.
