5 years later and I am replying. I have been reading and reading more but still see what seems like the same bitter people. Thank you Jack for asking what's my story. My story is like everyone else, things didn't go like the fairy tale I was promised as a little girl. Life is hard sometimes and blame isn't with just one person. The other half of a marriage that isn't posting here isn't always the bad guy. We only get one perspective in these postings that paint the other person as bad but life just isn't that way. Both were probably bad, good, loving people that didn't make it through a terrible time. I wish people here wouldn't jump to conclusions about a person who isn't posting here. Thanks for being here to help people.