i'm not quite sure why this is so hard, I've known something was up on May 21....or at least he invited her to have something up. Then it gets worse, we have our company annual dinner next wednesday, and I just found out OW is signed up to attend. That's her and H and me all in the same room for a couple hours. The day after all-staff meeting where I get to be in the same room with both of them. I think I'm gonna be sick....
dfb, I havent read up on your sitch but see you've been on bb for awhile....did your bf have OW? did it burn out? how long did it take? darn, I get to where I think I'm doing ok and then this all hits like a ton of bricks. H is hoping to find another job, and I sure hope he does as well. I don't know if he hopes so to put distance in w/OW, but I really feel like it would help. I hope we wouldnt have to move, though, I don't know what to think. I need to look back in my threads and see when it was he asked me to take S to religion classes... I think it was after I found the email about her taking off on her b-day. pretty sure it was. ohhhhhhhhhhhhh damn it's hard.....................but I know throwing a fit or getting upset isnt going to help at all..........................................
