Resolut - Hi

My W continued her affair after I found out and stated she wanted a relationship with affair partner, I was to soft for a couple of weeks, but you have to workout you can't nice her back, you need to be a nice face b*****d.

I told my W I was no longer sharing the MBR, you find somewhere else to sleep. I also let her be responsible for her finances and told her I expected 50% running costs for house etc. I then put the house up for sale and sold it! All within 6 weeks of the A being discovered.

Yes, for 2-3 weeks it pushed her toward her AP, but in the end the cold light of day the consequences hit home. She had lost everything and her AP realised he would be land with a her and 3 children. Poof all the magic and rainbows disappeared.

If you let her eat cake she will, have strong healthy boundaries, sending you strength and a big hug!

Remember you have to be willing to lose your M, to win it back!


Me: 40 W: 36
T21 M17
S12 D10 D10
ILYBNILWY
EA happened.
PA happened.
June 2016
trying to piece our M and life's back together...