Hi SBJ,
I'm not talking about guys looking for relationships, I'm talking about guys looking for a quick hook up.

Physical touch is my LL also, and I miss feeling safe in my exh's arms, or holding hands. Heck, we held hands after BD, after he moved out, geez, even in court we were holding hands and I had my head on his shoulder, and we left holding hands and he hugged and kissed me before he walked to his car.

I'm talking about the guys Sotto works with - married, but asking a colleague out for a drink. She's not "one of the guys" - I mistrust their intention and wonder how their wives would feel knowing their husbands were asking an attractive co-worker for drinks after work.

Sadly, there are a lot of men and women out there for whom a wedding ring or vow means nothing.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver