Oh yeah, life goes on...

[SBJ]

I also feel as a woman that some men have the attitude that, "Oh you're divorced, you must be desperate for sex!" so they look at us as easy targets for this kind of slimy behavior. It's gross.

Now bttrfly, I know you said some, but remember that there are a lot of us that truly miss that closeness that we had for so long with a woman that was our friend and lover. There will always be slimy people out there. But, there many good men out there that would love to be close to a strong, caring, loving woman of your caliber. Sex is not what defines a relationship, but is part of what helps hold it together. I think I read that somewhere.

As someone who has physical touch as my LL it has been rough since last July, but God had helped me and kept me sane. What's strange is I miss the little physical touches more than the sexual part. Physical touch is what gives us energy from the other person. When they deny that it seems something dies.

Sorry to hijack...