In terms of welcoming her back..... to be honest, I don't think I would. The work she would need to do on herself and the work she would need to do together, I just don't believe she has that drive or desire to better herself even for a greater good. I will always love my W but right now I don't believe in her. In a lot of ways, I would rather find someone that understands the give and take of a relationship than be with someone that is only about themselves.