need somebody to talk some kind of sense into my head! I just found out (via office newsletter) OW's Birthday is May 21....around 2nd week of March, I found an email from OW to H telling him she couldnt take off work on May 21....its' a Friday, a day he's off anyway, so obviously he was asking her to take off with him....I don't think he's ever asked me to take off & be with him on my birthday...ever........I've avoided the place where emails MIGHT be like the plague for the last month, so don't know a thing, but o god!!!!!now what???? what if his "cooling off" towards me is because of plans w/ guilt over plans w/her? I don't know....I do great for a day or so and then it hits like a ton of bricks and I get blown away..... I wondered why he wanted her to take off May 21, thought maybe it was their "anniversary"...!!!!
Our 25th Wedding Anniversary is May 5...I'm so saddened by this sitch at this time. and then her b-day on top of it.
HELP......some body help me get my head on straight!
I have dreaded knowing when her b-day was for some reason, now it seems doubly hard.
