Haha Irish ... I have an image of her slinking away trying to look inconspicuous, with an entire room full of people looking at her.
I too wonder about the married people who act anything but, and their poor unknowing spouses. Trying not to be turned off on the concept of marriage, but it's a bit dicey, seeing so much of this - I think what I would say to anyone wanting to get married is the trick is to make sure that one shares the same definition of marriage with the potential partner, as well as the terms husband and wife, including what those roles and responsibilities mean to each person. I personally can't imagine dating much less ever marrying again.
I also feel as a woman that some men have the attitude that, "Oh you're divorced, you must be desperate for sex!" so they look at us as easy targets for this kind of slimy behavior. It's gross.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver