15Stang and Blu, you guys are so kind. will respond in more detail in a bit, but for now I have an urgent question, for both you of you, for ANYONE.
My father pointed out to me this morning that if I let WH file on unreasonable behaviour, this becomes our reality - i.e. he left me because he couldn't take it anymore. OW becomes incidental to the story.
It matters to me how it goes down in history because of my son.
My father is advising I should file based on adultery.
The urgency of time is because my grounds run out in two weeks. I leave for my home country on Tuesday. I will keep to kick it off by then if I decide to file on adultery.
On the one hand I am a Christian who doesn't believe in divorce.
But apparently divorce believes in me. If I am going to get divorced, is it better to do it on 'my terms', and have this become our history - that WH left for another woman which is why we are divorced?
