Agreed, but again hard to do. Can't just flip a switch after 16 years and stop caring about someone that was in your life all day, everyday.
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17