I'll be fine. I'm not feeling any heartbreak - finding out the sociopathy involved cured me of ANY longing. And given that it was preceded by the month of crazy behavior - relief is more the word.
I get this^^....the long term deceit is so weird and requires such cognitive dissonance.
I almost wanted to analyze your TDH and his escape mechanisms, blah blah blah
Who cares? You didn't have kids together and there was no commitment or m, and so
ta ta a$$hole.
And though it always hurts to be betrayed, in this case I say thank GOD there's a side chick - to do some heavy lifting in case TDH goes totally bonkers again.
SO - not your problem.
You are on your path and just stay on it. You're taking what you want from the R and the good memories, and leaving the rest...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016