Cheating wife wants to leave marriage

[25yearsmlc]

Ginger,

The point is that not too many people would tolerate those things. Especially when they know she has been talking bad about them. By your logic, I have to prove her wrong based on the things she said about me.

you mean, 180s? Countering her negative images of you with new positives?

Once again, I never thought that at all prior to her saying those comments about me. I was just pointing out the audacity as if my height makes me not good enough. But there are those who could say the same about her weight. But you all seem to be ignoring that fact...smh

No, we are not ignoring that fact. I am surprised you are here trying to save your m.

here's a tough question & I really want you to dig deep about it...are you here to save the marriage, or are you here so you can "win" and not feel rejected?


I feel like you speak of your wife with such contempt, and I don't mean just about the affair

but about HER. I suspect you do think she's lucky to have any man, and that this attitude affected her deeply.

So Ginger's point about her proving you wrong, is insightful for you.

Just take it in. No one is attacking you. We are giving you feedback about what your comments seem to reveal -

that might have been revealed in your behavior or comments to your wife...

Saying you "apologized for your behavior that lead to her A" but then constantly making her A the focus, and now her weight,

undermines your whole personal accountability issue, imo.

How are you a different man now? How would you be a better h to her, now?

Remember, she's not here trying to save the m. You are.