I'm still looking foward to ideas for "sexy stuff" to turn on H....he's kind of a fuddy-duddy the last couple of weeks, not really I guess, but just not where I am these days.... I've done almost every suggestion in the "marriagebed.com" suggestion list.....in fact I think I've done them all, and some times they work and sometimes he just plain isn't in the mood. Says he can't handle eveyday. sure is a turn of events.....guess I'll just back off a while and a little and see what happens. Gonna go get S....o yay, I'll get to see the b---h. S is still laughing over the look on her face when I "flipped her off" last week. Yep, that's me, the cool calm mature one. I guess she wouldnt have been so shocked if it wasnt so out of character though....teheheheh....should I tell her there's more where that came from? Naaaaaaaa, guess not, darn it.