And that is why I vented on here, instead of going to her or someone we know. Was that harsh what I said, yeah. But I loved this woman regardless of weight gain, health issues or what childhood issues she brought into this relationship. Any other man would have ran for the hills.
But I'm still here regardless. And her sister wouldn't be laughing if she knew that her sister was having an A with her cousin who has a family of his own. Hopefully my W would realize that she is out of line. And I have never felt this way about W in regards to weight until I heard her say what she did. And the audacity of it all came to mind.
I know you were venting, but do you truly believe that no one else would want her because she is over weight and has childhood issues and she is lucky to have you?
Because if that is your true belief, she senses it. And how hurtful is that? You are with her when no one else would want to be?
I'll be honest, I unfortunately know women who (although very wrong) who lived this and what did they do? Set out to prove their H's wrong. That they COULD get someone else.
You may think because you love her when no one else would that you are raising her self esteem, but really, you are destroying it.
