You're right. I don't know what to do. The A is obviously a deal breaker for me, but if they are to work together, there will be no hope of us reconciling unless she leaves her job.
I was operating under the assumption that I can't do anything to end the affair - it must take its course - and I saw signs it was fizzling out, so i just focused on myself. Now I feel a sense of urgency that I know I cannot give into. But Matrix your correct. I'm not sure what my plan is, so I now feel in limbo a bit.
I re-read DR book, and I feel maybe I haven't goal set correctly. I have chalked any positive momentum to "cake eating", so I found monitoring results hard to measure.
Previously in my posts Sandi mentioned that the WW needs to feel a Sense of loss, and she takes a harder stance on how to treat a WW. I think I need to employ some of these tactics but struggling how. I need to develop a plan.
