Thats a big part of things for me, and her as well, in that there is substantial shared debt as well as to whether to sell the house. I was and still am quite busy with settling my parents estate as well, as my dad passed away suddenly 2 months ago
I am so sorry to hear this^^. I think losing a parent is an under rated event. And it's a big deal.
My sincere condolences.
On a separate note, please keep anything you may inherit, separate...inheritances are not supposed to be part of marital property but if it gets commingled with other accounts, it's a lot harder to figure out.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016