Ok that was poorly worded, as i do reflect on where i went wrong as it helped me understand where i harmed the relationship and used that knowledge to grow myself, but i don't dwell on coulda/shoulda/woulda, rather i think of what can i do now to move forward with or without her, although i'd prefer a new relationship together built on who we are today and going forward


BD Oct 2016
Me 47, W 43
together 25 years
S 25, D 22