Quote: detaching - very hard to do consistently, at least while we're on the roller coaster.
A big AMEN to that one Bill! some days I'm fine and know I'm going to be ok and I'm excited about life, and other days it's like a cold wind sucks me down a black tunnel.
I'm glad the comments were helpful to you in your sitch. I feel certain that if your W was really at peace with what she's doing, she wouldnt be in so much distress. So I guess that's a good thing, means the "real stuff" is still in there under the layers of dust.
I know it's a totally, ridiculously cheeseless tunnel to guess at, but why would H keep calling OW??????I guess if he's calling her he isn't with her....I cant help but wonder if this will ever die down... but I have to remind myself, it seems like forever but DBing has just been a little over 4 months. There has been progress, sometimes things seem great. From reading their posts, I think Sage has been at it almost 2 years and I think about the same for Betsey (underdog).... O Patience, where art thou?
