Sorry for the confusion, but I actually meant from this moment forward. Or actually back in late December. I apologized to my W for my actions, which led to her A. And that I was going to make changes necessary for the MR. But I told her from that point on continuing to the A was solely on her. And using me for an excuse for her actions was not going to work. Also that I wouldn't tolerate further PA between the two of them. Figured there is no need to enforce that boundary, since it should be obvious.
And let's not forget that messenger now has a secret conversation setting for the cheater who forgets to delete their messages. Found that being used back in December when I was finding things on FB messenger. But what should the consequence be for catching W using these tools to contact OM?
