3.5 Months of Pain - Fork in the Road

[sellout]

so a little clarification. I didn't tell her specifically what I was reading, just it was an interesting article about divorce type situations.

I have GAL in the following ways: I am more kind to everyone, lost weight, become more spiritual, got new hobbies, reconnected with old friends, made new friends, become more responsible with bills, become a better father, become a better listener.

Trust me...she has taken notice of most if not all of these things. With my detachment (yes, I need to work on more), I have seen some changes in her attitude, albeit still dating OM.

One of the biggest challenges is the "balancing" act you have to play as far as communication, acting interested and deciphering if she is wanting to reach out or just mask her feelings.