Cheating wife wants to leave marriage

[Uphill]

Boundaries are something you set now and enforce from this point forward. I will not be disrespected in "......." manner anymore and if I am, this will happen. Do not set a boundary you are not willing to enforce because you will be tested. If the line is crossed without repercussion, you will be tested further and further.

As far as messaging, you can very well set a boundary on that but just expect that to drive it underground. Somewhere untracable such as Snapchat, Skype, google hangouts... the possibilities are endless these days. None of them will ever show up as a flash on the radar.

Just remember. A boundary set is a boundary which you need to enforce. Nothing undermines you more than weakness.