Originally Posted By: Matrix
I think the main thing to note in your sitch is that she asked for it twice. If you were just randomly emailing her articles, then that would not be advised.


OK.....I read it a different way. Sellout said that he was reading up on WW/MLC (why he said this to her, I have no idea). Then sheasked to see what he was reading. In my mind, thats not her trying to get educated on MLC, thats her trying to get information on what sellout is doing. I imagine she will read it and say "thats not me" and go along her way.


As for your questions on reconciling, I really wish you would put your energy elsewhere. I asked before how the marriage would be different and your reply was this:
Originally Posted By: sellout
I am focusing on myself. I have lost over 30 lbs and obviously she sees this. I haven't mentioned a word about it and she hasn't either. I am being a wonderful father to our son (not that there was ever an issue with that before), and mentioning nothing about Marriage, Relationship, Divorce, OM, etc.. unless she brings it up. When she calls/texts I do answer and respond truthfully, kindly and politely.

Thats all fine. But what I dont see is where you are acknowledging your faults and working to repair them. Besides losing weight, where are you different today than you were on BD? What further change do you want to make?

Your W isnt going to want to come back to be in the same relationship as you had. What have you dont to grow so that you wouldnt fall into the same patterns?