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On the other hand, I love D very much and I don't want her to not have anything when she moves.

Very admirable and I commend you for it sir. Part of me would say that this is her choice so she needs to deal with the consequences, but the other part of me would say that it is for the D. Therefore, I personally would help in anyway I can but only when it comes to making the D's transition easier. I'm sure this will be hard on her as well.

My STBEW complains that she also "needs" stuff, but I just calmly reminded her that this is all her choice so if it doesn't concern the kids then don't bother texting me about it.