Quote: learning that it was OK to DO NOTHING was also a saver...I'm a very action-oriented person and it was a difficult less one to learn.
I could benefit from working on this lesson....I am a world-class fixer and get-it-doner....lessons I learned early, and they've been hard to let go of....maybe I need to work more on that one
why do some people disagree with you on the "snooping" issue? I hadn't recognized that... I cant think of anything very positive I've ever gained from it....I guess the only thing that ever happened was it reinforced what I already KNEW. I guess there was one positive, not really from snooping, but S overheard his dad talking to OW on phone and saying "things just arent working out right" back in about Jan., which kind of gave me some hope that maybe all was not lost and hopeless.
