While I think affairs are wrong, they are not all alike.
Not to highjack or anything, but what do you mean by this, 25?
I'll find your thread soon and expound on this^^. Here, I will just say IMO - context matters.
Ignoring context means all is black and white, so most LBSers with a spouse who is in an A, should just file for Div & that's that.
To be clear, No I am not a cheater, and No I am not "defending" affairs.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016