yes Sage, I know you're right....maybe I need to ask him to take care of that phone bill, he takes care of the bill from the long distance carrier for just that reason, and I told him I needed him to do it because I couldnt deal with it. I've stopped moving the basket on his dresser to clean where he used to stash his printed off emails from her underneath....for just that reason. calls to her havent been showing up on the cell bill until just lately....only last month and this month to be exact..... although my attorney suggested I keep any "documentation" "just in case" (I've told her I don't want a D, did ask about how the process works and what I need to do to protect myself financially).....
more questions if you don't mind, how long after you started DBing did your H part w/OW? How did you know he was being truthful about it w/you? What was the biggest help to you in getting through it? Did you see signs that he was pulling away from her before it really "took"? actually I'd really love any input from anybody with any experience with the above questions......grrrrrrr
I still havent emailed him today....maybe the crazymaker hasnt gotten her way yet!
