Ok, going to throw out a question as I have had a couple of differing opinions.
Last week W was all friendly because she needed my help and she got stuck on holiday with the kids.. This week we have been back to the emotions blowing with the wind, W even told me that her emotions are all over the place.
Anyway, last night I had texted W to confirm the kids schedule would stay as is, her response was to ask if this weekend was hers with the kids or mine as she had lost track....
I replied saying that it wasn't my place to keep her updated with her schedule anymore.
For me, I'm trying to respect her 'independence' as she says she wants to be and letting her take care of her own s***. My Dad said I was being negative and unhelpful....