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should I email him to ask how his day is going??????

I'm sure OW does/has/is......probably having lunch with him....but that is certainly pursuing behavior, and last night he didnt respond well to sexual advances....






If you're doing it with an expected outcome in mind (like he emails you back a positive response), I'd say NO, don't do it.

I honestly think that your best course TODAY is nothing. Drop the pressure on YOU, drop the pressure on HIM. Remind yourself that you don't actually NEED to do anything today to FIX anything.

I'd say lay low, do something fun and energetic for YOU and stop trying to fix anything for the moment.

Be bright and cheerful next time you see/talk with him.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.