What I will say I've done thats worked = stopped arguing almost immediately after BD, I don't beg, plead or pursue, Im always happy and talk in a friendly tone, i don't initiate relationship talks. What I am in need of doing is reigniting the spark, I have started working out and joined a band (which i used to do when we first met), Ive committed to advancing my career. She pushed away if i did anything remotely complimentary or affectionate - so i stopped, but wonder whether i should have just changed my approach to be less obvious
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22
