I appreciate your forwardness, and you're right in so many ways. We really don't spend much time together as she hides away in her room much of the time. Perhaps Im over thinking things as well.She was told me to grow a pair and then when she would distance after an argument i should have grabbed her and made love to her. It certainly helps to hear harsh realities. We eat dinner together during the week, see each other when we have a smoke. beyond that contact is not much greater.

I am an introvert breaking out of it slowly - joined a band, recognizing its time to get back in shape, energy has been increasing steadily. I also realize that distancing had its purpose in settling anger and disrespect, but it isn't enough and won't re-ignite a spark of attraction... but it had to happen

BD Oct 2016
Me 47, W 43
together 25 years
S 25, D 22