One real quick question and it's not to minimize your pain.
What are you doing for you? How are you becoming a husband only a fool would leave?
How are you GAL? Your post was almost all about her and OM.
At some point this has to be all about you & your kids. Believe me, the uncertainty of knowing what that means is - well, it $ucks.
But you will go nuts if this OM and your w occupy all of your thoughts.
BESIDES, I figure with as much pain as I've endured with this, the least I can do is get my emotional money's worth.
Somehow to make it transformative in a good way.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016