Again, I can't stress enough on here that "One Size does NOT fit All". The DB strategies are a good framework but you must be able to use them in your own unique situation. I sent the article (not anything about DB) and we will see.
Hello sellout,
You are so smart to recognize that one size does not fit all. At the same time, I agree that you should not be sharing articles (even if she is asking for them.) How does she even know you have read these articles? I'm guessing because you mentioned it at some point, which is pursuing.
Yes, she is cake eating. She has the best of both worlds. She has OM across the street from a house she can't afford to live in without you. She'll make it about displacing the kids, but she is more interested in continuing her current lifestyle.
Good job on not taking the bait on her asking about spending the 4th of July as a family. She is temperature checking you to see if you will go for it while she is in an active affair.
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