Leaving it up to God (I think!)

[Altair]

Coly,
my advice which has worked very well for me:

First of all he will probably say nothing of the above at all, but let's say he does and it's a bomb drop in your lap of any variety.
Just say, wow, ok.. let me think about that.
Best response is no response.
Ages ago, I'd respond to H with long emails about how I felt-- bad move! Lesser ages ago I'd feel he deserved a response right then and there to whatever it was he said. I don't do that anymore at all!
hugs.