Hi Coly, firstly I would approach meeting up on Sunday as a catch up with a former colleague or not very close friend. Stay for an hour and then have somewhere to be. Have some light chat and then excuse yourself and go about your day.

My suggested responses would be as follows:

2. Thanks H. I'm not sure how that would work for me - but I'll give that some thought..

3. Okay H - thanks I appreciate hearing that direct from you. I have plans now, so I'll say goodbye & take care.

Hope this helps Coly...and JMHO of course :-)


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