I think if she asks, that is way different than you trying to push articles down her throat when she does not want it. I would not share any DB stuff with her. That is your playbook only. But, if she specifically asked for it and it's not straight from DB, I would think that is a good sign. Most of us on here would love for our spouse to actually reach out and ask for anything.
I think your W is very conflicted. Shen already broke down to you a few weeks ago and committed 100% to working on things. For whatever reason, she ran back into her tunnel. That is very common in most of these cases. The WAS's start to peak out of their castle and then duck back inside when something spooks them.
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