Morphing into Red Hot Mama 2

[ObiWan]

deb, no I havent noticed it in my sitch (yet) but I think I understand it.
1 - you are happier with the direction your R is going
2 - focusing on things makes it expand - you're trying to focus on positives, and not crazymake the negatives
3 - you're learning a LOT about him, yourself, and your R which is always healthy
4 - PMA breeds PMA - seen a lot of that.

I've said it before - go you! Lock and key the crazymaking monster. Print out your post on things that make you pity the OM, and keep it handy when you start to think his walks, cellphone, etc are all OW related.

hang in there