Thank you for that. I have been working on the reply thing. I have been trying to wait on replies...and there have been a couple texts that I didn't reply to at all. They didn't warrant a reply, but we have always at least acknowledged that a message was received, so not replying at all is something different...even if a reply wasn't warranted.

I have been trying to live for me and in the moment, that is just really hard to do ALL the time. I am really glad I found this website as it has helped so much.


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017