OK, so basically my wife has stopped talking about the divorce completely. Occasionally I will bring certain things up about it - I.e. I sent paperwork to attorney, and she always has some blase' repsonse as if she doesnt want to talk about it. She is still seeing OM.
A few days ago I sent a lengthy email to wife about bills, house, visitation of son among others. One of the things was 4th of July schedule with our son. I said I wanted to take son on vacation at that time and she said no way.
This morning she calls to talk about AC in house. When that 30 second conversation was over she said:
"THIS IS JUST A FLEETING THOUGHT, BUT I WANTED TO SEE IF YOU WOULD BE UP FOR THE IDEA OF US TAKING OUR SON ON VACATION TOGETHER ON 4TH OF JULY".
My response was "No". I continued to ask, "Did you discuss this with OM", her response was that he knows that we always take him somewhere on 4th of July but he doesn't know details.
She is obviously not living in reality, cake eating and just down right in denial and confused. RIGHT?
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17
