Re: my wife? The latter, without question. Re: the OM? I want him out of the picture however I can get him. Threats, no threats, act of God, whatever. Because no "recovery" from her waywardness and no "work" on us will happen (and obviously in that order) until he is out of the picture. IF she chooses to cut contact (more on this in next post) then I want as little outside disruption as possible. If I can get this clown to back off, maybe it incrementally improves our odds.

H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3