So I get home from work and my W is in the bedroom with the door closed talking with her sister. She had just got home from her counseling session . And I over hear her talking about how the counselor was asking her what type of man she wanted after the divorce. Now she was joking about how she no longer wanted a short man. Now I'm 5'5" and ironically enough the OM is only 2 inches taller than me. But this woman has the audacity to joke with her 220lb sister. While is she 280lbs at this point has the nerve to talk about me...smh. This is also the same sister who's cousin she was screwing. At this point I'm real tempted to tell SIL about how devious her older sister has been to the both of us. This woman is seriously going to take kindness for weakness. And now has the nerve to ask if I'm helping her cook. The old me would have taken her head off. She lucky that someone lives her big ass enough to fight for her, even when she is doing wrong. Because there are women out there with better attitudes, loyal and in much better shape.