You are one of my favorite posters-probably because you seem super authentic. That's a rarity nowadays. I certainly am not a relationship guru, but just a friendly piece of advice...slow down. It's so new and people have a tendency to be rather impulsive or rash when they have that chemical rush.
I do understand your hesitation regarding the familial sitch. My guy has invited me to meet his family a number of times (I've met his niece and super famous BIL) and while I would like to go (it's a couple of hours away), the times he has asked would literally mean my entire weekend is gone. That may sound selfish of me, however, I have my people about 90% of the time. And I have other caca going (I'll elaborate on my own thread) so my *free* time is precious. Hopefully, I can go on this next visit.
Relax. Let things play out. They always do:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer