I've only done 5k's, so an 8k would be a lofty goal of mine. I've got a bad foot.

I was in point pleasant this weekend with my kiddo and some friends. Beautiful weather.

My ex and I split when our daughter was infant. We never had family vacations. I took my D9 when she was 8 to Disney on my own. It was the best vacation ever. Just us, not having to deal with anyone else...... it was just wonderful.

I take her away either on my own, with my dad and his wife, or with friends. There is no stress in it. This might sound kind of mean, but having this vacation without her and just the kids will be much better than if she were to come. You are actually going to enjoy it more. you may long for the OLD wife, but you don't want this one there. Trust me on this one.