thanks mndad, I wish you could follow me around in person to keep me in line...I find your posts and insight so helpful.
I really appreciate the affair input....It really blew me away. God is my witness though, I've never so much as looked at another guy since I met H, never even considered it. that's why I was really shocked. I've mulled over wehy he would think that, and have come to the conclusion that he must be thinking that my interest in sex with him has increased, the interest must have been targeted some where else before. that's all I can think of...I guess one thing that's in my favor is that I can respond calmly because I certainly have a clear conscience that I never made any mistakes in that area. Funny how calm a clear conscience can let a person feel. I guess I never completely realized it before.
I really appreciate the "tool box" response....that's what I will do. and really work on the holding back on questions.
H sure is off the wall these days. all over the place.
