No as bomb drop was 4 months prior, although my dads passing has set back my GAL efforts. Thats what I was referring to. Sorry about that, I rambled a bit
Before BD, to me things seems ok, frequent sex etc, yes there were some issues that arose, but nothing i recognized as major... although i see it now in hindsight that there was complacency on my part as I gave her the wrong love language. Similarly I didn't understand her needs fully at the time
BD Oct 2016 Me 47, W 43 together 25 years S 25, D 22
