Latest update... today kids and H did the 3rd Skype call in a week .before that he didnot talk to them since September except for some sporadic shallow txt msg.

It really feels different when he is doing things I used earlier to guilty him to do it and although he might have but seems he could not keep it. When he saw I stopped pushing him to do anything seems it started to make him feel he has a choice ...I suppose . ( it took him more than a year to figure that his relationship with his kids is his responsibility not mine)

This make it easier for me to think my travel was good for my kids...

Last edited by job; 05/01/17 09:11 AM. Reason: Added spacing between paragraphs

M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated