Ok, for my sanity I've reviewed this detaching info this morning and am posting the link here so I can find it often:
Detaching with Love vs. Controlling http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB24&Number=58315&page=&view=&sb=&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
Maybe after the millionth reading it will soak in...Dazed, I'm still considering this part of my homework assignment. See, I am working on it....just such a slow learner...


been around awhile!