Hi Coly, I know you know not to compare situations, but yes, there's a time-element in there that could bother you. But, my H is very lost and much younger. He really believes or is trying to convince himself that "a clean slate" is the best way to move forward. He said pretty much in the same sentence as filing that maybe we could get back together someday. Try that on for size! I'm going to take Job's advice and just go one day at a time. So yeah, have a coffee with him.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016