thanks Bill....where do I sent the check for the therapy? No, I havent asked for reassurances because I'm so afraid of appearing needy...I've told him I'm not good at mind reading, but never asked for reassurances. Maybe he thinks he's giving them, and we're just on differnt wave lengths, I don't know, that never occurred to me. Everything you said makes so much sense.
What do you think about the affair comments though? That caught me so off guard, I don't know why he would think that or what I should do (maybe I should let him think that!)...I told him I'd never cheated on him and he just said "huh".....kind of skeptically. I am amazed he even thinks I would have an A???????? weird....
